The Closet

Today, January 17, 2015, the day my husband, at the time, of 18 years, together almost 20 years, moved out of what had been our families home for 12 years. He decided that it was best that he move into his own place and that we separate. He only took a few things from the house and his clothes and shoes. When he finally got everything out of our home and into his new apartment (with my help), I left him and our sons there and returned back home. Home to what I thought was my dream house when we built it and that it would always be filled with our family and the memories would last forever. But it was empty and quiet. Quiet for the first time ever! I remember going upstairs to what was our bedroom and walking into what was our walk-in closet, half empty now because his things were gone. I sat on the floor and cried for what felt like days. My mom and sister were worried because they were calling to check on me and got no answer. Little did they know, I wanted to die!

However, even on that day and every day of my life and YOURS, God has a plan, the Master Plan. My plan at that moment in my life was to sit in that closet and not eat, drink, not move from that spot. But it is not my life but Gods. He was not finished with me yet

Through my blog, I would like to inspire, teach, motivate women to think about their situation differently than I did. To try to look at the positive in every situation. Not to make the same mistakes I did. One woman not to get a divorce, one woman not to have to deal with a separation, one woman not to be cheated on, one woman not to go into debt.

I can only be me and share my authentic thoughts, situations about my mistakes and life lessons in my marriage, my separation, my divorce and my rebuilding period.

As we journey through my life I would like you to always remember that no two people will have the exact same journey but if you can learn or avoid one of my many mistakes you will be blessed and I will be happy for you!

Thank you for reading and please come back for more!

K. Lyte